
When you’re looking to get to know someone in a chat room, it’s important to have a few good conversational techniques available for those moments when the conversation wanes. Here are seven tips to start an online chat conversation.
1. Ask a personal question
Without hunting for too much information, engage the other person in a conversation to show you’re interested in them – many people enjoy talking about themselves.
2. Bring up a recent movie or TV show
Talk about how great it was to see The Social Network, or how you can’t wait for the next episode of Glee.
3. Discuss your favorite music or food styles
Learning about someone’s favorite music or food can really help you get to know the person.
4. Compare notes from college or high school
Everyone has interesting experiences or takes on what college and high school were like, and sharing these is a great way to connect.
5. Talk about the online chat room you’re in
Discuss the website or chat room you’re in – what brought you both here? What do you like about the site?
6. Tell a funny story or joke
A silly joke or a humorous anecdote are always good ways to get conversation flowing.
7. Ask the person’s opinion on a current event
Without getting too controversial, have an intelligent conversation over a recent news story.
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